“ROCKY”
Captain Rocky Versace Plaza and
Vietnam Veterans Memorial
Alexandria, VA
November11, 2000
Mayor Donley
Councilman Speck
Mrs. Stephen Henry Former
Miss America 2000; Heather French
Steve & Curtis Versace
Families of each of the 62 Vietnam
Veterans we honor today
You many Veterans here
today
Fellow members of the Long
Gray Line — especially those of you from the class of 1959
Friends
Welcome everyone. And Happy
Veteran’s Day. A day when, here in Alexandria, and all across this land, we
take a moment to pause...
· To remember that “freedom isn’t free”...
· To think about, and to honor, the men and women —sons and daughters of
America — who served, and fought, and
died so that we... and our children.., and our children’s children.., might
live our lives in a land of “freedom and justice for all”.
It’s a special treat for my
wife Judi and me to be with you here in Alexandria today. A city where we lived
at 3 different times in our life, where our children attended Douglas MacArthur
School and T. C. Williams High School, and where we have many friends and many
fond memories.
Let me begin by recognizing
the remarkable role played by the Friends of Rocky Versace in making
this day possible:
Mike Faber Tony
Heisley Genny
Phil Faber Duane
Frederic
Mike Kentes Kevin
Rue
Joe Flynn John
Gurr
Seven men, united by a common goal, who marched down
a “long, winding — and
sometimes seemingly impossible — road” to make the Captain Rocky Versace Plaza and Vietnam
Veterans Memorial a reality. Building support, lobbying, standing at
shopping malls in the rain gathering signatures on petitions, week after week,
month after month, believing in the cause they pursued and determined to do
whatever it took to get the job done.
I’d like to ask the Friends
of Rocky Versace to stand and be recognized.
To all of you, together — and with special
appreciation to John Gurr for his unflagging leadership — we say
“THANK YOU VERY MUCH.”
It’s impossible to do justice in the few minutes we
have today to remembering the service and dedication of all 62 wonderful human
beings whose names will be inscribed on the Memorial that will stand in the
plaza outside. But I find it’s often helpful in honoring a group of individuals
to focus on the life of one of them, so we can remember that they were real
people — sons, brothers, husbands,
fathers, friends — who
gave up so much so that this country might flourish, and our lives might be
better.
This plaza is to be named in memory of a very special
young man: Rocky Versace. The oldest of 5 children, whose father was a West
Point graduate, Class of 1933, who was a Colonel of Artillery. And whose
remarkable mother, Tere Rios Versace, was an author, a pilot, a linguist fluent
in 5 languages, and so much more.
Rocky lived for a period of his life here in
Alexandria, on Forrest Street, only about 500 yards from where were gathered
today. He was an acolyte at St Rita’s Catholic and, indeed, became an acolyte
and member of the Catholic choir when he went to West Point.
His faith was a vitally important part of Rocky’s
life, and in one of those cruel ironies, he was just 2 weeks shy of completing
his second consecutive tour of duty in Vietnam when he was wounded and captured.
And his dream was to come back home, leave the Army, and enter training as a
Priest-candidate in the Maryknoll Order.
But that was not to be. On October 29, 1963, in the
course of a violent battle with the Viet Cong, Rocky was badly wounded and taken
prisoner. He was beaten, imprisoned in cruel, inhuman conditions, malnourished,
and tortured. He attempted to escape on 4 different occasions - only to be even
more savagely tortured in return. Ultimately labeled an “incorrigible”, he was
kept in isolation, in a tiny bamboo coffin, for the final 18 months of his
life.
Who was this young man, and how did he find the
courage, and faith, and love of country to become such an inspiration to us
all?
Let me share a thought or two in answer to
that question from my years as his friend, and fellow Cadet, at West Point.
Rocky and I were Classmates — members of the West Point
Class of 1959.
He was a great friend. Spontaneous. Mischievous — Rocky seemed to get in
trouble with some regularity because of “pranks” we all were party to but,
somehow, he was the one who got caught.
Rocky was generally respectful of authority, but
“irreverent” at the same time. But he had a tremendous “POSITIVE ENERGY” about
him. He had a natural curiosity, and he was game to try almost anything.
Now, these are — in my mind, anyway — entirely admirable qualities. Rocky was fun to be around. He
was a good and loyal friend. But nothing of his personality — on the surface, anyway — gave notice of the HUGELY
CORAGEOUS; INDOMITABLY SPIRITED; INSPIRATIONAL “SOLDIER-HERO” he
came to be.
Yet today, as I look back with the benefit of 40+
years of hindsight, there were, indeed, signals of what was to be. Let me
briefly mention 3 of them.
First, Rocky was a member of the Cadet Debating Team.
He loved to debate — on
any subject, anywhere, at any time. When his sullen captors tried to indoctrinate Rocky — to tick, and outwit, and
bamboozle him into renouncing his country or his role in the war — THEY FOUND THEMSELVES
CONFRONTING A PRODIGIOUS OPPONENT UNLIKE ANYTHING THEY HAD EVER SEEN!
Second, Rocky was a member of the Cadet Chess Team.
And he was very good. Again as, years later, his captors tried their many
schemes and vicious, cruel games to break his spirit, they were doomed: THEY
WERE, IN FACT, UP AGAINST A CHESSMASTER CHAMPION WHO WOULD NOT
CAPITULATE, AND WOULD CONTINUE TO FIGHT, NO MATTER WHAT THEY THREATENED OR DID.
But, in hindsight, the thing that should have best
forewarned me of the Herculean strength and epic courage Rocky would
come to display in Vietnam came from his becoming the Cadet Intramural
Wrestling Champion.
Why so? Well, in a way that only a good friend can say, I
would tell you that in terms of wrestling talent, Rocky was almost totally
skill-less! Not quick. Not especially strong. Not particularly coordinated.
Not a comprehensive student of the sport. He reminded me, in a way, of a
BUMBLEBEE.
It’s said that, “aerodynamically speaking”, a
Bumblebee can’t fly. The only thing is, it doesn’t know it can’t fly. So it
just does it. Rocky was exactly the same. “Athletically-speaking”, there was
simply no way he could ever become the Cadet Intramural Wrestling Champion. The
only thing was, he didn’t know it. So he did it anyway!
The point is, Rocky did not understand the word
“quit”. He did not accept the concept of “giving up”. He would not entertain
“failure” He did not acknowledge the possibility of “losing”. He was a
champion. A winner. And he became a hero, who —through the efforts of a number
of people here today — has been recommend for the Congressional Medal of Honor.
How did he do it? I believe it was a strong and
supportive family background. An unqualified faith in God. And, in no small
measure...
The Spirit of West Point...
The Soul of the Long Gray
Line, and ...
The motto he lived by:
DUTY, HONOR COUNTRY.
As we dedicate, today, the Captain Rocky Versace
Plaza and Vietnam Veterans Memorial, how should we remember Rocky and the 61
other gallant soldiers, sailors, airmen and marines we honor today?
Let me suggest that we should speak directly
to them — today, and every day of our
lives.
My message to them is simple. It’s this:
· You represent the very best in all of us.
· Regular human beings, who laid down your lives for the good of
others.
· Uncomplaining. Uncompromising. And uncommon in what you willingly
did for us all.
· We remember you fondly, for who you were, and what you did.
· Heroes, every one.
· We miss you all.
God bless.
And, God bless America