Tom McCarthy

(30 APR 1933, 3 MAR 1964)

Tom McCarthy Eulogies



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Hank Meetze and Berenice McCarthy (2001)



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Hank Meetze and Berenice McCarthy (2001)



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Tom McCarthy's Memorial Dedication (2001)



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McCarthy Family and McCloskey
(45th Reunion, 2000)




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Ft. Benning Jump Class (Row, #)

Coyle (1-2), Meekison (1-7), C. Johnson (1-8), Nidever (2-5), Cardillo (2-6), Wilkinson (2-9)
, Bergen (2-10), Sietman (3-4), Landers (3-8), Tebodo (4-3), Grubbs (4-8), Strati (5-1)
, Hadly (5-4), McIlroy (5-5), Strom (5-7), Kinzer (5-9), Joseph (5-10), Nieves (6-1)
, H. Stone (6-6), Holbrook (6-8), Wells (6-9), Hollensbe (7-4), Whittaker (7-5)
, Martling (9-1), T. McCarthy (9-2), Macdonald (9-3), Devereaux (9-4), Meetze (10-9) (JAN 1956)




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I - 2

1st Row: Skip Macdonald, Harvill, Wray, Roades, Wallis, Meetze, Sims
2nd Row: Tom McCarthy, Bill Brown, Wells, Roth
3rd Row: Vanden Bosch, Schow, John T. Hamilton, Jeter, Walt Campbell
4th Row: Gray, Fralen, Donald (CO), Fiscus




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Hank Meetze and Tom McCarthy and members of I-2 1955) Regimental Champion Water Polo team (1955)



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Wells, McCarthy, Meetze (MAY 1954)



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If ever there was a "warrior" it was he. My friend
and fellow soldier, we miss you.

Rich Cardillo
February 4 (1998)


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I will always remember him as the best there was
and the best there could have been.

Will Holbrook
February 4 (1998)


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Though many years have gone by, I still see you as the exuberant, young company commander in the "325". As the Bn S3 let it be known we could not have accomplished our task without you.

Jim Robinson
February 5 (1998)


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Thomas Weller McCarthy

No. 20531 Class of 1955)

Hostile death, Vietnam (3 MARch 1964)

aged 30 years.

Internment: Arlington National Cemetery

Arlington, Virginia

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So moved they calmly to the field,

Thence never to return,

Save bearing back the Spartan shield,

Or on it proudly borne.

Felicia Dorothea Hemans ( 1793-1835 )

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On the 3d of March 1964), in the Republic of Vietnam, a young senior advisor to 1st Vietnamese Airborne Battalion who had imbued the spirit of these lines from The Spartans' March into his unit was, on this day, himself sadly but proudly, borne from the field of battle. His shield was a strong faith in God, a courage born in him as a soldier's son, and a determination to fight for and protect what he believed in. Such was the destiny of Thomas Weller McCarthy who lived as a soldier and died as a soldier.

Tom was born in the post hospital at Fort John Hay near Baguio in the mountains of Luzan on 30 April 1933). The camp, which had been designated as a rest center, was located in a pleasant mountain retreat where U.S. military personnel assigned in the Philippines could escape from the low land heat. The family lived there while Tom's dad was assigned to one of the two Igorote companies of the 45th Infantry (Philippine Scouts). Tom's early years were spent in a number of locations, including Washington, D.C., during World War II, and Chile, from 1947 to 1950). In Chile, Tom was enrolled in St. George's College where the entire curriculum, except for America history, was taught in Spanish. The first six months were understandably difficult, but Tom quickly developed a working knowledge of the language and actually became quite fluent in it before the end of his dad's three year tour. The family returned to Washington in 1950), and Tom, aged 17, was enrolled in Sullivan's Prep with West point as his goal. After the usual struggle for an appointment, he entered in July 1951) with the class of 1955). As a cadet, Tom continued to develop the inborn qualities of moral courage and physical stamina that were to serve him so well throughout his short career, and to create lasting impressions of greatness on all who came in contact with him. He participated in many extracurricular activities including the Catholic Chapel choir and the gymnastics team, and he was well known among his classmates for his keen wit, quick laugh and rare sense of humor.

Tom was commissioned a second lieutenant of Infantry on 3 June 1955), and after completing the Basic Infantry Officer Course, began his airborne training. This last was to become an intrinsic part of his life. Tom's first duty assignment was with the 82d Airborne Division at Fort Bragg, North Carolina. He was to serve almost half his active service with this division. In 1958) Tom went to Germany for duty with the 24th infantry division, was in Lebanon during the 1958) crisis, and returned in 1960) to the United States. While in Germany, Tom met Lucille Berenice White, and upon his return to the States they were married at Fort Benning on 23 April 1960). Tom commanded Company C, 325th Airborne Battle Group, 82d Airborne Division at Fort Bragg from June 1961) to June 1962) at which time he joined Headquarters, XVIII Airborne Corps as Secretary of the General Staff.

In (MAY 1963), Tom, in the tradition of many West Pointers before him, traveled half-way around the world to protect his own country and to assist an ally in need. He was assigned as senior advisor to the 1st Airborne Battalion of the Airborne Brigade. These were South Vietnam's "elite" troops, the trouble-shooters who were called upon when things got rough. On the 2d of March 1964), this battalion set out from its home station at Ton Son Nhut Air Base towards the flat valley of the Mekong River in Kien Phong province about 90 miles west of Saigon, a little more than a mile from the border of Cambodia. Early next morning Tom's and another battalion continued to advance on their assigned objectives. Without warning, entrenched Viet Cong regulars opened fire from three sides on the two advancing battalions, using automatic weapons, mortars and recoilless rifles. When part of the Vietnamese unit began to falter, Tom unhesitatingly began to rally them and to urge them forward. After advancing across 75 yards of open ground, Tom was felled, mortally wounded. But as a result of his heroic actions, the Vietnamese troops continued to press forward forcing the VC to withdraw across the Cambodian border.

Captain Charles R. Johnson, a classmate serving with Tom in Vietnam, escorted his body back to the United States. He was buried with full military honors in Arlington National Cemetery on (11 MARch 1964), just two months prior to his scheduled return to the States for attendance at the Command and General Staff College.

Eulogies and letters of condolence from many of Tom's friends helped to relieve the deep sorrow suffered by Berenice and their three sons, Thomas Gerard, 3, Robert Weller, 2, and John Martin who was born after Tom left for Vietnam.

At Ton Son Nhut Air Base, Tom's Vietnamese unit and his U.S. contemporaries paid farewell homage to Tom at a plane-side ceremony. A grateful Vietnamese government also made the posthumous award of the its Medal of Honor, first class, the highest decoration which could be presented to an American.

Tom was the first member of the Class of 1955) to become a casualty of the Vietnamese War. For his heroism he was awarded the Distinguished Service Cross, his own nation's second highest award for bravery. It was the first award of this decoration to an Academy graduate in the Vietnam action. Berenice accepted the award at ceremonies at Fort Bragg, North Carolina on 19 June 1964). Part of the accompanying citation reads:

As casualties mounted rapidly and the friendly troops were thrown into confusion, Captain McCarthy displayed complete disregard for his own personal safety and unhesitatingly moved into the inferno of hostile gun fire to organize the troops and establish an effective base of operations. He then joined his counterpart with the lead element and continued his brave efforts to rally encourage the troops until he was mortally wounded.

A indication of the impact that Tom's leadership left on the men he commanded was the request by every man in the 82d Division who had served under him to attend his funeral at Arlington where they could pay their last personal tribute to him.

As a monument to Tom's memory, an amphitheater at the corner of Gruber Road and Bastogne Drive, Fort Bragg, North Carolina, has been named in his honor. The Infantry School at Fort Benning also has honored him by naming the parachute training building at Lawton Field "McCarthy Hall".

Generals and soldiers alike were outspoken in their praise of Tom. Their feelings can best be summed up in the words of Major General Robert H. York, Commanding General of the 82d Airborne Division, when he presented the Distinguished Service Cross to Tom's widow.

If the measure of a man's life can be based on the respect and esteem he has gained among his associates, seniors, subordinates, and peers, or on the contribution he makes to his country, rather than on a span of years, then Captain McCarthy lived a full and rich life.

It was a fitting tribute and to it I add this final salute to a gallant soldier and a dear friend.

Hank Meetze
February 4 (1998)


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Vietnam & the West Point Class of 1955)


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Date sent: Wed, 0(6 MAY 2009) 10:24:20,0500
From: ColJack "coljack@austin.rr.com"
To: 1955Bus "usma55bus@west-point.org"
Subject: usma55bus: A Message from Tom McCarthy's Son

Thomas McCarthy, Tom's son, sent the following message to Dan Moses. He would like to hear from his dad's friends.

From: Thomas McCarthy "tom@tommccarthy.com"

Date: Sunday, (MAY 3, 2009), 4:15 PM

Hi Col. Moses,

It’s great to hear from you. I am the oldest son (48 years old now) and I live in the San Diego area. I have been out here about 22 years now. I’ve been married to my wife Stacy for 18 years and we have two children, a daughter Kylie who will be 16 next month and a son Tommy who just turned 13. I am an author and a speaker on the topics of Leadership, Communicationan and Peak Performance (www.tommccarthy.com).

My brother Bob, who is a year younger than me, lives in Boulder, Co with his wife Robyn and his children Andrew and Charlotte. Bob is a VP for a company based in Boulder called Level 3.

Brother John, who is the youngest, is a 1985) graduate of West Point and is a Colonel in the Army. He served a tour in Iraq and then went to the War College in Carlisle. Upon finishing War College about a year ago, he was stationed in Turkey. He is there with his wife Margie and their two daughters Helen and Meg.

I have copied my brothers on this email and I’m sure they will email you too. My brother Bob reminded me in March that it had been 45 years since our Dad died in Vietnam. It is always nice to hear from his classmates and friends.

If you are out in California again visiting James, please let me know. We have a guest house and we would love to have you come and visit.



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