Ed Nidever

[28 NOV 1932 - E1 - 20496 - 31 MAR 2014]

Ed Nidever Eulogies

AOG Testimonials



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[Ed Nidever Funeral - APR 2014]



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Carl McNair
[Ed Nidever Funeral - APR 2014]



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Wally Adamson and Carl McNair
[Ed Nidever Funeral - APR 2014]



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[Ed Nidever Funeral - APR 2014]



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[Ed Nidever Funeral - APR 2014]



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Jo Ann McNair - Ed Nidever - Jane Burns
[DC Party - DEC 2012]



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Ed Nidever
[DC Party - DEC 2012]



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Ed Nidever and Jane Burns
[DC Party - DEC 2012]



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Ed Nidever and Jane Burns - Jo Ann McNair
[DC Party - DEC 2010]



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Jane Burns - Jo Ann and Carl McNair
[DC Party - DEC 2010]



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Norm Blahuta and Ed Nidever
[DC Party - DEC 2010]



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Standing: Cadet Tom Mangan '10 - Don Hilbert - Carl McNair - Ted Gay - Ed Nidever - Sitting: Terry Tucker - Carla Hilbert - Jo Ann McNair - Mary Carolyn Gay - Jane Burns [Washington DC FDD - MAR 2010]



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Ed Nidever - Carl McNair - Chuck Roades
[Scribe to CO Party - MAR 2009]



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Norm Blahuta - Ed Nidever - Ray Gunderson
[Scribe to CO Party - MAR 2009]



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Bob Strati - Dick Wargowsky - Ed Nidever
[Scribe to CO Party - MAR 2009]



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Matt Schepps - Tommy West - Ed Nidever
[Scribe to CO Party - MAR 2009]



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Carl McNair - Norm Blahuta - Ed Nidever
[Scribe to CO Party - MAR 2009]



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Myrna Williamson - Jane Burns and Ed
Nidever [DC Party - DEC 2008]



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Rear: Nidever - McNair - McAuslan x55 - Front: Troyan - West -
Deardorff - Roades - Russell [Army / Navy Party - 2008]



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Mary Carolyn Gay - Ed Nidever and Jane Burns
[DC Party - DEC 2007]



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Jane Burns - Carl and Jo Ann McNair
[DC Party - DEC 2007]



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Jane Burns - West - Blahuta - Myrna Williamson - Elaine
West - Barb Blahuta [DC Party - DEC 2007]



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Anne and Dan Malone - Nidever - Jim Ryan - Mary
Monahan - Ed Anderson [DC Party - DEC 2007]



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[DC Party - DEC 2007]



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[DC Party - DEC 2007]



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Rear: Malone - Jim Ryan - Nidever - Gay - Goldstein - McNerney - Middle: Russell - Ed Anderson - Ludwig - Front: Dorothy Goldstein - Mary Monahan - Donna Ludwig [DC Party - DEC 2007]



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Rear: Deardorff - Page - Malone - Ryan - Nidever - Gay - Goldstein - Middle: Anne Malone - McNair - Russell - Front: Jo Ann McNair - Dorothy Goldstein - Mary Monahan [DC Party - DEC 2007]



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Rear: Hilbert - Troyan - Deardorff - Page - Malone - Ryan - Nidever - Gay - Middle: Carpenter - Peg Robinson - Anne Malone - McNair - Front: Pat Strati - Ruth Sloan - Joan McCulla - Jo Ann McNair [DC Party - DEC 2007]



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Rear: Deardorff - Page - Malone - Nidever - Jim Ryan - Gay - Marcia Cathey - Goldstein - Middle: Anne Malone - McNair - Russell - Ed Anderson - Front: Jo Ann McNair - Dorothy Goldstein - Mary Monahan - Greta Masson - Donna Ludwig [DC Party - DEC 2007]



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Jane C. Burns and Ed Nidever
[DEC 2006]



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[50th Reunion Bio]



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Ed Nidever
[50th Reunion]



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Ed Nidever - Sherry and John Giddings -
Leanne McAuslan [50th Reunion]



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Sandy and Dick Wargowsky - Leanne (friend) and Ed
Nidever - Carolyn and Zach Hagedorn [50th Reunion]



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Leanne (friend) and Ed Nidever - Connie and Joe Franklin
[50th Reunion]



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Jo Ann McNair - Bob and Pat Strati - Don and Carla Hilbert - Betty and Matt Schepps - Sandy and Dick Wargowsky - Ed Nidever and Elaine Black - Jack McAuslan x55 (missing from photo Ted and Mary Carolyn Gay - Bob and Linda Newton - Jim and Nancy Cutchin - Jim Bergen and Carl McNair) [MAR 2005 Founders Day]



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Elaine Black and Ed Nidever - Jack McAuslan x55
[MAR 2005 Founders Day]



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Dianne and Phil Enslow + Ed Nidever
[DEC 2004]



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Ed Nidever and Donny
[DEC 2004]



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Lisa Nidever Williams
[NOV 2004]



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Ed and Carolyn Nidever
[DEC 2003]



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E1: Carl and Jo Ann McNair - Jane Merriman (guest) - Bob and Pat Strati - Norm Blahuta - Ed and Carol Nidever [DC Party - DEC 2003]



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Rich Miller - Jack McAuslan x55 - Nidever -
John Brinkerhoff '50 [DEC 2002]



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Marcia Cathey - Mary Monahan - Doyle -
Rich Miller - Nidever - West [DEC 2002]



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Carolyn Nidever - Vicki Kagan - Mary
Monahan - Doyle [DEC 2002]



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Carolyn Nidever - Vicki Kagan - Nidever - Doyle -
John Brinkerhoff '50 [DEC 2002]



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Gunderson - Cindy - Nidever - West
[2001]



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Nidever - Newton's - Wargowsky's - McNair's -
Cathey's - Goldstein's [FDD MAR 1991]



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Marcia Cathey - Durf and Barbara McJoynt -
Ed Nidever - Susan Sheets [1990]



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Marcia Cathey and Nidever
[ANCC - DEC 1990] ?



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Chickie Hilbert - Tommy West -
Ed Nidever and Date [1989]



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Ed and Marjorie Nidever - Linda Newton
[1988]



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Rear: Cathey's - Monahan's - Ed Anderson's - Sloan Front:
Vitori's - Wargowsky's - McJoynt - Nidever and Guest [1987]



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Herren - McGuire - Roades -
Edwards - Nidever [1987]



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Strati's and Nidevers
[Army-Navy Game - 1987]



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Marjorie Nidever - Jo Ann McNair - ?
[1986]



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Bob Newton and Ed Nidever
[1986]



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[10th Reunion - 1965]

Standing [L to R]: Weaver - Lewis - Turner - Chikalla - Gallup - O'Brien - Freed - Hadly - Wix - ? - Streett - ? - Reb Young - Quinn - Lenio - ? - Perkins - Thorsen - ? - Nieves - Sherman - Burroughs - Giza - Traut - Sloan - Gay - Paul Parks - Andrews - Ginter - Bates - McNair - ? - Lichtenberg - Nidever - Secord - Feagin - Cathey - Herren - ? - ? - Ludwig - ? - ? - ? - Ralls - ? - Shimunek - Macdonald - ? - ? - ? - ? - ? - Bob Strickland - Front [L to R]: Soper - Newton - Dax - Chance - Schmidt - Shideler - Bergen - Matteson - Hargrove - Hornbarger - Steakley - Stevens - Drummond - Rudzki - Knierem - Wargowsky - ? - Stern - ? - ? - Livesay - Dickson - Michalove - Hagan - Landers - ? - Blitch - ? - Cardillo - Ordway - Trobaugh - Crancer - Maus - LaFrenz - Sydenham - Strom - ? - Howie Stone - Schepps - Raymond - Spellman - Sanderson ? - Wray - Fikaris - Stevenson - Sims - ?

Larger Size



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[Ft. Benning Jump Class - JAN 1956]

Row 1: Coyle (2) - Meekison (7) - C. Johnson (8) - Row 2: Nidever (5) - Cardillo (6) - Bergen (10) - Row 3: Sietman (4) - Landers (8) - Row 4: Tebodo (3) - Grubbs (8) - Row 5: Strati (1) - Hadly (4) - McIlroy (5) - Strom (7) - Kinzer (9) - Joseph (10) - Row 6: Nieves-Rivera (1) - H. Stone (6) - Holbrook (8) - Wells (9) - Row 7: Whittaker (5) - Row 9: Martling (1) - T. McCarthy (2) - Macdonald (3) - Devereaux (4) - Row 10: Meetze (9)



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E-1 Firsties - 1st Row: Nidever - Olive - McNair - Lapham (CO) - Nordlie - Cathey - Keegan - 2nd Row: Dugan - Burrus - Norm Smith - 3rd Row: Daly - Strati - Muller - 4th Row: Blahuta - Arthur - 5th Row: Ralls - Hinrichs - Richie Johnson - Singer - Coleman



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E-1 Plebes - 1st Row: D. Macdonald - Leaver - Dugan - Daly - Schriefer - Burrus - 2/3 Row: Blahuta - Coleman - Hinrichs - Singer - Strati - 4/5 Row: Nordlie - R. Johnson - Wuerz - N. Smith - Kirk - 6/7 Row: McNair - Olive - Keegan - Ralls - Lapham - Cathey - Muller - Nidever



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1953 Goat Team
[Goats 13 - Engineers 7]

2nd Row: ? - Major "Irregardless" Smith - Stern - ? - Herren - Coleman - Dilts x55 - Wilkinson - Patton - Doyle - McGrevey - Ewing - ? - Strati - ? - C. Martin - ? - Steinman - Lowry - John Miller - West - Gunderson - Quinn - Whittaker - Napier - Pace - Nidever - 1st Row: Hall - Greer - Trobaugh - Woodruff x55 - Auger - Gransback - Nichols - W. Smith - George Smith x55 - C. Johnson



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2012 AOG Online Register Entry

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Edward Wesley Nidever

Edward Wesley Nidever was born on 28 November 1932 in Fresno, California and appointed to West Point from the 9th Congressional District of California. He entered West point on 3 July 1951. He was in Company E 1 and on the track team his Plebe and First class years. He graduated on 7 June 1955 and commissioned a Second Lieutenant in the US Army in the Infantry.


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Carolyn Ann Hinrichs Moffitt-Nidever

Birth: Feb. 22, 1939
Death: Sep. 30, 2004

Mrs. Carolyn Moffitt-Nidever passed away Thursday, September 30, 2004, with her family at her side. Loving wife to Edward Nidever; loving mother of Andrea Delfin; John and Micheal Moffitt; Sister of Mary Hinrichs, Kathy Buhs, Kenneth Steve and Gary Hinrichs; grandmother of Faith and David Delfin.

The family will receive friends on Tuesday, October 5, 2004 from 7:00p.m. to 9:00p.m. at Fairfax Memorial Funeral Home 9902 Braddock Rd. Fairfax, VA. Funeral service will take place on Wednesday, October 6, 2004 at 11:00a.m. at the funeral home chapel. Interment will follow the service in Fairfax Memorial Park.

Memorial contributions may be to Capital Hospice 6565 Arlington Blvd. Ste. 501 Falls Church Virginia 22042:or Lord of Life Lutheran Church, 5114 Twinbrook Rd. Fairfax Virginia 22032


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Edward Wesley Nidever

Edward Wesley Nidever, West Point Graduate, soldier, loving father, grandfather and friend of many in the National Capital Region, passed away of heart failure on Monday, March 31, 2014 at INOVA Loudon Hospital Cornwall in Leesburg. Born on November 28, 1932, in Fresno, California, he came east with a Congressional appointment to join the US Corps of Cadets at the Military Academy in 1951. Four years later, he received his diploma from President Dwight D. Eisenhower along with 469 of his fellow members of the Class of 1955.

Commissioned Infantry, he underwent Airborne and Ranger training, served with the 3d Infantry Division at Fort Benning, GA, and later became an instructor in the Airborne and Ranger Schools, receiving his Master Parachutist's Wing's. As a young Captain, he later deployed to serve with the 7th Infantry Division in Korea and shortly thereafter on to Vietnam in 1961. On a night patrol from an outpost near Saigon, he was wounded by enemy fire and awarded the Purple Heart, also receiving the coveted Combat Infantry Badge. In 1971, almost ten years later, Ed's younger brother, Major David Nidever, USMA Class of 1958, lost his life in Vietnam.

After a decade in uniform and service in the Army Special Warfare School at Fort Bragg, NC, 1963-65, he entered the business world as a real estate broker in Atlanta, GA, handling major investment properties across four states. The call of Federal Service in 1980 brought him to the nation's capital where he worked for the next 20 years with increasing levels of responsibility in the FHA, Naval Facilities Command and the DOD Federal Housing Office in the Pentagon. During this time, he also earned a PhD in Public Administration, adding to his academic credentials earned upon graduation from the Military Academy. His wife, Carolyn, predeceased Edward in 2004, and he is today survived by his children, Lisa (Ken) Williams of Castle Pines, Colorado, Edward Jr., graduate of the US Merchant Marine Academy, now residing in Atlanta, GA, and Karen (Britt) Triplett of Leesburg, VA, eight grandchildren, Mathew, David, Wesley, Brooke, Beth, Blake, Beau and Luke, and his devoted friend and neighbor, Jane Burns, of Leesburg, VA.

A truly unique person in so many ways, his smile was a ray of sunshine to all those who he interacted with. His warm heart and giving ways were constantly evident in his perpetual optimism and friendliness. His sense of humor brought smiles to those around him, and was always on display. He will be forever remembered for these wonderful qualities, and will be greatly missed by all who knew him.

Services for Ed will be held at 1PM, Tuesday, April 8, (Visitation 12-1PM) at the Fairfax Memorial Funeral Home, 9902 Braddock Road, Fairfax, followed by burial with military honors adjacent to his wife, Carolyn, in the adjoining Fairfax Memorial Park. Following the service, the family welcomes all to the home of Ed's daughter Karen Triplett at 43507 Butler Place, Leesburg, VA 20176.



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[Ed Nidever Funeral - APR 2014]



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Eulogy - Edward Wesley Nidever, USMA '55

Fairfax Memorial Funeral Home - Fairfax, Virginia
Delivered by MG Carl H. McNair, Jr., USMA '55
April 8, 2014

On behalf of the Class of 1955, I want to express our deepest condolences to the family in the loss of our dear classmate - and thank you all for coming and the opportunity to share some memories of him from over the years.

By way of background, our Class entered West Point with 625 "New Cadets" from all over America and allied nations, on July 3, 1951, and added 28 "turn backs" from other classes for a total of 653, graduating 470 four years later, a 28.1% attrition rate - about 10% in New Cadet Barracks," Beast Barracks" as they were called then, 10% more during fourth class (plebe) year and then almost 10% in the three upper-class years. In our Company E-1, we started with 24 and graduated 20 four years later for a completion rate of 83.3%, an attrition rate of 16.7%, over our three years together, about the same or slightly less than the balance of the Corps, since we did not join Company E-1 until after New Cadet Barracks, the highest attrition period for new cadets.

Fast forward to today, fifty-nine years later, the Class of 1955 has lost 41% while Company E-1 has lost seven of our 20 members, 35% - slightly less than our class in longevity. Ed Nidever is the seventh member of our 20 to pass away and he will be sorely missed.

Over the past week, after sending the notice to our class webmaster with details on Ed's passing, we have received many messages from classmates who could not be here today, due to time, distance or health and expressed their prayers and condolences. One of those, Norm Smith offered an observation which I thought was of significance and interest to all. Norm recounted that of our 20 E-1 classmates, seven had chosen the Infantry Branch and all seven of those had served in combat in Vietnam at some point and lived beyond the age of 80. In fact, Ed was the first member of our entire West Point Class of 1955 to serve in Vietnam, reaching back to 1961, and was the first of '55 wounded in that conflict, and is the first of our Infantry "Band of Brothers" to pass away. Perhaps, our Lord in Heaven chose to smile on those who selected the Infantry and chooses to smile again upon our departed classmate, Edward Wesley Nidever, as we gather here this day.

And now, with that brief chronological history of the Class of 1955, permit me to proceed with this "Service of Celebration" and final salute for our comrade -in-arms.

Edward Wesley Nidever, friend to all, enemy to none, proud, loyal and true, known for his wit and his wisdom, as well as his "ways with women." Or as he might say, women became his avocation since he was proud of his minor at USMA "understanding women - a West Pointer's view" in which he stood near the top of the class, especially if the women were dating another cadet. When not exercising, sunbathing or studying at West Point on a beautiful summer Sunday afternoon, you would often find him walking in Full Dress around the plain checking out the tourists, offering to show a select few the famed "Kissing Rock" on Flirtation Walk. As history reflects, the rock has never fallen, but Ed tested the legend time and again, as often as he could - with many collaborators.

As outgoing and entertaining as he was, Ed Nidever did have a serious and sentimental side, always looking on the bright side knowing "there had to be a pony under any problem." Ed was blessed with a wonderful mom who unfortunately passed away much too young during his cadet years, thus she never had a chance to share the joy of his graduation, meet the women he loved and children he reared. She would have been so proud of both him and his brother, young Dave, who followed Ed in the Corps, graduating only three years behind Ed in the Class of 1958, sadly losing his life in the Vietnam conflict in 1971, some ten years after Ed had been wounded in the same war.

Ed and Dave were very close and equally proud of the other, similar in personality and conviviality among their classmates. It was my privilege to know them both and share many memories with them on assignments, not only at West Point, but at Fort Benning and even later in Vietnam. Will never forget when Ed and Dave shared an apartment together for a few months in Columbus, GA, while Dave was in training and Ed was an instructor in the Infantry School. Towards the end of each month, the wallets of a lst Lt and a 2d Lt renting an apartment off-post became quite thin, so, lacking funds to buy enough eggs for breakfast, sometimes they were down to a single egg in the refrigerator, so one would hide the egg from the other. If the hunter could not find the egg, the hider was able to eat breakfast and the other went hungry that morning. You could always tell who found the most eggs since Dave was slightly heavier. Some of us thought that Ed was giving into his younger brother, until we found out that Dave finished in the top quarter of his Class and always seemed to know where Ed would hide the egg.

Reflecting back over my 63 years of friendship, thru thick and thin, there are so many memories, I simply could not recount them all. Ed was one of my two roommates during Plebe year and I must confess we were like the original "odd couple" since I came from Florida and he came from California, totally opposite sides of the nation. Somehow we had much in common and we jelled since my dad had passed away and my mother was a widow and Ed's mom and dad had divorced, so his mom was a single parent - and he loved her as dearly as I loved my mom. Although I was a bit quieter than Ed, perhaps slightly more reserved and soft spoken, even lacking some self-confidence at 17 years of age and he the more mature and seasoned one at 18 - go figure that, if you knew Ed like I knew Ed. But I quickly realized I had to "get up early" to get ahead of Ed, he was always polishing and politicking, looking for ways to stand out and be spoony. Sometimes this won him more attention than he deserved from the upper classes, who seemed to develop their "favorites" for "extra instruction" and Special Duty for those "chosen ones". Luckily we had a roommate more experienced than both of us who, being a military brat, had spent his four High School years at New Mexico Military Institute and then went on to a Freshman year at VMI - five full years of military school with four more years yet ahead. Raleigh was a great in orienting both of us on the academics and military requirements yet ahead. With that foundation, we worked as a team of three and all threw our hats in the air together four years later.

As the months slipped by, however, Ed became more adventurous and innovative, becoming somewhat of a prankster, enjoying the balancing act with the tactical and academic departments, which became his trademark that followed him through much of his career in the military and his very senior positions in the Federal Civil Service. As his tolerance level grew for risk taking at the Academy, barely making the taps and lights out on some evenings, his affection for the ladies and theirs for him grew even more. But short as we were of funds, opportunities were limited to increase the meager minimum $5 a month allowance we might receive for our 25 cent movies and four cent candy bars. Ed, however, came through again with hither unknown business opportunities, in which he enticed me to join him, Greeting cards and stationery among them, the risks were high and the margin low - until Ed learned late in Plebe year that ladies garters, with black, gold and grey lace, and ARMY printed thereon were the rage in the upper classes. They could be bought in quantity for 75 cents each in New York City and sold to other cadets for $1.50, a 100% profit margin any merchandiser would be proud to have. He was able to take over the "forbidden, but fantastic business franchise" from an upperclassman graduating and again co-opted me to share in the enterprise. While business was good, it more than doubled later when Ed introduced a new West Point tradition that the cadet would have to put the garter on his girlfriend's leg just above the knee AND some young ladies assumed it was bad luck to break a tradition. The more adventurous cadets would even buy two garters, one for each leg. There were some weeks when Ed might go through 4-6 garters himself.

Moving to the more serious - the military side, Ed was a super sharp, spoony cadet, always keeping his equipment in the best of shape, he studied hard and sought out leadership positions that would put him in the center of the action, becoming not only a Sunday School Teacher, but also a cheerleader for the Army sports programs and one of the best we had. He was even known to make up some of his own cheers, fit only for internal Corps consumption, which still embarrass some of us to this day, yet Ed was always Ed. He was a true romantic, an adventurer, always seeking a "higher mountain" to climb and it was natural that he would go into the Infantry - the Queen of Battle, Airborne and Ranger, becoming a Master Parachutist with over two hundred jumps - with a parachute. If they had had a badge of honor for jumping without a chute, he would have gone for it. In his earliest years, he earned not only an Expert Infantry Badge, but in combat later, he also earned the Combat Infantry Badge.

And as my mother-in-law would often say, Ed looked so great in his Green Beret of our Special Forces, sharp as they come, spit and polish all over. I would remind her that I was an Army Aviator and wore a flight helmet - but never managed to impress her as did Ed with his dashing Green Beret and spit shined jump boots. Without doubt, Ed had become my closest friend over our cadet years, our decades of military and government service and on into retirement and the business world beyond for almost six decades. We remained close and our families even closer.

Ed married a young lady from Georgia and I did also. In fact, perhaps to always go me one step better, Ed managed to marry two young ladies from Georgia, what a lucky guy. Ed was Best Man at Jo Ann and my wedding at the Fort Benning Chapel 57 years ago this October. Always looking out for my best interests, who on occasion might also serve his own, he would offer his counsel and advice, which often I would ameliorate. I will never forget my wedding day, October 26, 1957, when he offered me a "get away" from the altar. He was single and I was about to tie the knot, leaving immediately thereafter for a two week cross-county honeymoon, followed by a two year tour with the MAAG Taiwan in Nationalist China. Jo Ann, my finance was to join me five months later on a slow boat. As Ed and I stood behind the altar of the chapel waiting to walk out in our dashing blue uniforms to meet the bridesmaids and my beautiful wife to be - Ed said quietly. "Carl, you really don't want to do this. My car is out back, let's slip out now - I will take you to your car, hidden away, you drive on to San Francisco, catch your plane to China, come back in two years and everyone will have completely forgotten this engagement." I retorted that my entire family was present, Jo Ann was in her beautiful gown, and the reception awaited us at the Club. And above all else, I love her very much. No one could do such a thing to his bride. He looked at me and intimated - maybe I could. Ed went on to marry within a short few months. He had just pulled another of his infamous pranks, but I knew him too well. Throughout her stay with her mom in Columbus, he was a perfect gentleman and helped Jo Ann complete her military processing, passport, and even took her to the airport five months later as she left to join me. If there were one person on all of Fort Benning I trusted my new bride with, it was my West Point roommate.

In time, I was the Godfather for his son, Edward Wesley Nidever, Jr. - We spent vacations together, fished together, camped together, visited back and forth, my children and even grandchildren call him "Uncle Ed" and his children call me "Uncle Carl". When we moved, we helped one another load and unload. The bonds forged at West Point held us together through thick and thin, the good times and the bad. When Jo Ann had her stroke in 1984 and remained a patient in Walter Reed here in Washington for almost five months and I was on duty at Fort Monroe all week long, Ed and his wife would go out to see her to retrieve soiled clothes bring fresh ones and any other amenities she required. Ed was even known to have smuggled in occasional cigarettes and small miniatures of the best bourbon - both for medicinal purposes of course. On those occasions, I was not sure whether I was supposed to hit him or hug him, so Jo Ann chose the latter.

There were countless times when he would help me do things around my own home, paint, clean yards, plant flowers, and I would reciprocate when we lived in the same neighborhoods, both at Fort Benning and later here in Alexandria. But perhaps one of the greatest gestures of kindness was when my sister, Patsy, then a Senior in Huntingdon College in 1955 and engaged to her husband to be, Charles Singletary, USMA Class of 1956, wanted to visit Charlie at Christmas time in the West Point Army Hospital where he was recovering from a near fatal truck accident, while a Firstie at West Point. I was in flight training in Texas and was not permitted leave or I would fall months behind in my training. So, how could my young sister get unescorted from her college in Montgomery, Alabama to West Point in December unescorted?

Ed checked in with my family and told my mother he would take leave from Benning during the Christmas holidays where he was an airborne instructor, come to Pensacola, pick up Patsy and drive her to West Point, wait a week and return her home. My mother said that if it were anyone other than Ed Nidever, she would never consent to such a suggestion. My friends, just think of your daughter, a 20 year old college coed on a 1300 mile drive each way with Ed Nidever, single, 2d Lt, big Buick -"on the road again". He always captured the moment, not riding in on a big White Horse, but in a big "White Buick." Ed drove Patsy up and back in her time of greatest need and endeared himself to our family forever. The more informed of you might ask what Ed did while my sister visited her fiancé' in the West Point hospital for a solid week. My friends in New York said Ed was able to reconnect with a few former girlfriends there during that one week. Truly a man of opportunity and loyalty to all his friends, be they male or female.

And that dear classmates, friends and family is the Ed Nidever I knew and loved as I would a brother; had I been blessed with a brother - I would have named him "ED". There was never a call in the middle of the night or a need that he had that I would not answer could I do so - and he did the same for me over our six decades of friendship and camaraderie. We were that close and I now thank you again for this privilege of rendering our final salute on behalf of the Class of 1955.

I will always value his friendship and support for Jo Ann and me and our family for evermore. God Bless you, Uncle Ed. May you now rest in Eternal Peace in the army of the Almighty.

You will be sorely missed by us all.

AMEN-


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Report to the Class of 1955

on the Funeral of Edward Wesley Nidever
CO E-1, USMA Class of 1955


Ed Nidever was laid to rest with Military Honors on Tuesday, April 8, 2014, at the Fairfax Memorial Park in Fairfax, Virginia, beside his wife, Carolyn, who had passed away ten years earlier. Funeral Services were held adjacent to the park at the Fairfax Memorial Funeral Home in Fairfax, Virginia. Copy of his Obituary, Funeral Program and Eulogy have been provided separately on his web page. A brief synopsis listing participants and classmate's attending is provided herein.

Memorial and graveside services were very well attended including twenty classmates attending (5 of his surviving E1 classmates were present) and spouses attending, as well as many friends and neighbors from the Leisure World Retirement Community in Leesburg, Virginia, where Ed resided following his wifeManila FDD - MAR 2014 death in 2004. Family members attending were his youngest daughter, Karen Triplett, her husband and children, as well as EdManila FDD - MAR 2014 former wife, Marjorie Squires who played the organ for his services, his stepsister, Rev. Bunny Nidever Oliver of California, who officiated at the services, his son, Wesley Edward, Jr., his eight grandchildren, and Jane Burns, long time devoted friend and neighbor at Leisure World who is known to many of the class from many class events, Founders Day Dinners, and Army Navy Games.

Prior to the Memorial Services, an hour was provided for visitation and viewing in the Chapel where Ed looked his normal – peaceful self and attired for burial as he had requested in his Dress Grey coat, with his three “first class” stripes, the very same dress coat he wore on his last day as a cadet – for breakfast the morning of June 7, 1955. He had discarded it in the hall as he cleared his room that day and a roommate recovered it and returned him to him years later, at which time it became a prized piece of his wardrobe. It appeared to still fit him well and his neighbors at Leisure World recalled for us that Ed always wore that same dress coat on VeteranManila FDD - MAR 2014 Day each year, symbolic of his years as a cadet and later military service.

West Point classmates and spouses attending were:

John and Ruth Sloan, Co C1
Bill Arthur, Co E1
Norm Blahuta, Co E1
Carl and Jo Ann McNair Co E1
Earl Singer, Co E1
Bob Strati, Co E1
John Rudski, Co H1
Rich and Mary Ann Miller, Co H1
Ed Anderson, Co K1
Ted and Starla Vitori, Co M1
Dick and Sandy Wargowsky, Co M1
Jack McAuslan, XCo E2
Jim Cutchin, Co L2
Matt and Betty Schepps, Co L2

Eulogies were provided by Carl McNair, representing the Class of 1955, Blake Bralley, his oldest grandson, Britt Triplett, his son-in-law, and his step-sister, Rev Bunny Nidever Oliver. Pallbearers were led by Carl McNair, and included his son, Edward Nidiver, Jr., of Atlanta,GA, his son-in-law, Britt Triplett, former son-in-law, Glenn Bralley, and three grandsons. As the casket was placed in a beautiful white hearse, the driver held out a black and gold standard attached to the driverManila FDD - MAR 2014 side window of the hearse which boldly stood out “GO ARMY – BEAT NAVY” . Ed showed his loyal “Rabble Rouser” colors to the end and his flag bore evidence to same.

As the hearse and processional approached his burial site, military members from the 3rd US Infantry, “The Old Guard”, from Fort Myer, stood at attention with the hand salute as the flag draped casket was borne to the grave. Once in position, a bugler from the US Army Band, “PershingManila FDD - MAR 2014 Own”, sounded Taps as all stood at attention with “hands over hearts”, following which the Honor Guard folded the flag and presented it to Karen Triplett, EdManila FDD - MAR 2014 youngest daughter and next-of-kin. As the service concluded, mourners approached the casket, covered by a large spray of red, white and blue flowers, decorated by a wide “black and gold” ribbon, emblazoned with “USMA Class of 1955”.

Following the funeral services, all attendees were invited to meet and greet for a celebration of EdManila FDD - MAR 2014 life held at the home of Karen and Britt Triplett in Leesburg, Virginia.

Carl McNair



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